Twisted Boudoir is an adults only venue. No one under the age of 21 will be allowed a membership. We will require proof of ID before granting any membership.
No means NO.
Yes in your dynamic no may mean “oh yes fuck me harder” But here in these walls it means no. Don’t forget that. Being predatory or harassing anyone will get you kicked out of the building – or possibly thrown out the window.
Don’t Touch Without Asking.
Don’t touch unless invited. Period. Anyone found touching in an inappropriate manner will be told to leave the building and will be banned from all other events. Do not assume it is ok even if it was before.
Don’t touch other peoples toys.
People spend a lot of money on their personal toys – it is disrespectful for others to touch them. If you see something that you would like to know more about – then ask the owner at an appropriate time.
Don’t interrupt a scene.
Unless its an emergency, don’t approach a scene. If you have any concerns then please feel free to approach a member of staff. You risk injury to yourself or others by interrupting.
Be respectful .
Please be respectful to those around you. This includes staff and other players. We do not tolerate disrespectful behaviour. This also goes for areas where there is play going on. Please be respectful and remember that others are in their head space. Also be aware of your surroundings – players have right of way – getting too close risks you being hit by floggers whips etc.
As a player – also be aware of your surrounding and don’t flail wildly without knowing who and what is around you.
Don’t hog equipment.
Please be aware that during busy time there may be others waiting to use equipment. We do try to keep things moving, but patience is a virtue. Please do not “book” equipment or an area by leaving stuff on it. If items are left on equipment it will be moved by the staff.
Use of equipment.
While you are here, you may use any of the equipment on display. The management take no responsibility for injuries that might happen during their use. Any damages are solely your responsibility. We will check all equipment prior to your visit to make sure that any damaged items are removed. Please use all equipment responsibly and ask management if you are not sure how something should be used properly or safely.
Glass must not be taken into the play area under any circumstances. Plastic drink ware is provided free of charge.
Cleaning of Equipment
Cleaning equipment is available in the play space. Anything used or dirty we ask that you leave on the floor. If you use any of the available toys – please leave them in the used items bucket in the main play space.
Blood and knife play.
Any play that requires blood or piercing must be brought to our attention first. This also applies to anything that requires an open flame or bladed instrument. Anyone doing any kind of blood play must be able to dispose of their own sharps safely. We are not licensed for the removal of sharps needles.
Recording and Photography.
No visual or audio recording can be done in the play area without prior permission. If you are caught, you will be asked to delete any recording that have been made. Repeat offenders will have their equipment disabled and you will be asked to leave.
Twisted Boudoir does allow insertables and sexual play at private events only. Those are members only parties and private bookings. It is up to you to negotiate your own limits – but consent is key. YOU MUST HAVE FULL CONSENT, if you are not sure – don’t do it. It is assault and we will involve the authorities.
We do not allow breath play in any form. Accidents happen – its dangerous and difficult to monitor in a play environment.
SCAT and Messy play.
We don’t allow it. Please don’t do it.
RED RED RED
This club operates under the traffic light system.
Green – fuck yeah – more more more
Amber – that’s enough – back the fuck off.
RED – Stop. That’s it. No other meaning. Just stop.
This club has no licensed bar. At some events you may bring your own. Use this in moderation. All alcohol must be given to the coffee bar staff and you will be served.
While you are playing we expect you to follow a 2 drink maximum. You may drink more if you are not playing. This goes for giving and receiving.
If you become or arrive intoxicated or appear to be incapacitated in any way, we will remove you from the premises or refuse entry. The nature of this environment requires a certain amount of sense and awareness and if you don’t appear to have that, we will ask you to leave. There will be no refunds or expenses paid.
Please be discreet.
If you need to, cover yourself up with a coat, etc until you get inside. Lingerie, and fetish gear – especially of a revealing nature should not be worn outside. There are changing facilities available once you’re inside. We are sited in an industrial estate, although we hold most of our events outside normal working hours – others may still be on site.
Smoking / Vaping
As we are a commercial building smoking is not permitted within the club. As we have no covered smoking area, again street clothes are required for daylight hours.
Vaping is permitted within the club, try to be respectful in the use of E-cigs, Large clouds of vape can be off putting.
If you are found in the possession of drugs, or offering drugs on the premises you will be banned for life. Drugs of any type will not be tolerated.
We cannot take responsibility for your kit. Don’t leave your kit unattended and store it in a safe responsible way.