Rules

Age Restriction

Twisted Boudoir is an adults only venue. No one under the age of 18 will be admitted. We will require proof of ID before granting any  community membership.

No means NO.

Yes in your dynamic no may mean “oh yes do it again” But here in these walls it means no. Don’t forget that.  Being predatory or harassing anyone will get you removed from the building.

Don’t Touch Without Asking.

Don’t touch unless invited. Period. Anyone found touching in an inappropriate manner will be told to leave the building and will be banned from all other events. Do not assume it is ok even if it was before.

Don’t touch other people’s toys.

People spend a lot of money on their personal toys – it is disrespectful for others to touch them. If you see something that you would like to know more about – then ask the owner at an appropriate time.

Don’t interrupt a scene.

Unless its an emergency, don’t approach a scene. If you have any concerns then please feel free to approach a member of staff. You risk injury to yourself or others by interrupting. 

Be respectful.

Please be respectful to those around you. This includes staff and other players. We do not tolerate disrespectful behaviour. This also goes for areas where there is play going on. Please be respectful and remember that others are in their head space. Also be aware of your surroundings – players have right of way – getting too close risks you being hit by floggers whips etc. 

As a player – also be aware of your surroundings and don’t flail wildly without knowing who and what is around you. 

Don’t hog equipment.

Please be aware that during busy times there may be others waiting to use equipment. We do try to keep things moving, but patience is a virtue. Please do not “book” equipment or an area by leaving stuff on it. If items are left on equipment it will be moved by the staff.

Use of equipment.

While you are here, you may use any of the equipment on display. The management takes no responsibility for injuries that might happen during their use. Any damages are solely your responsibility. We will check all equipment prior to your visit to make sure that any damaged items are removed. Please use all equipment responsibly and ask management if you are not sure how something should be used properly or safely.

Glass.

Glass must not be taken into the play area under any circumstances. Plastic drinkware is provided free of charge.

Cleaning of Equipment.

Cleaning equipment is available in the play space. Anything used or dirty we ask that you leave on the floor. If you use any of the available toys – please leave them in the used items bucket in the main play space.

Blood/sharps.

Any play that requires blood or piercing must be brought to our attention first. This also applies to anything that requires an open flame or bladed instrument. Anyone doing any kind of blood play must be able to dispose of their own sharps safely. We are not licensed for the removal of sharps needles. Please do not share equipment with others during or after a scene without informing management. 

Recording and Photography.

No visual or audio recording can be done in the play area without prior permission. If you are caught, you will be asked to delete any recording that have been made. Repeat offenders will have their equipment disabled and you will be asked to leave.

Sexual play. 

Twisted Boudoir does allow insertables and sexual play at private events only.  These are community members only parties and private bookings. It is up to you to negotiate your own limits – but consent is key. YOU MUST HAVE FULL CONSENT, if you are not sure – don’t do it. It is assault and we will involve the authorities. 

Breath play. 

We do not allow breath play in any form. Accidents happen – its dangerous and difficult to monitor in a play environment. 

SCAT and Messy play. 

We don’t allow it. Please don’t do it.

RED RED RED

This club operates under the traffic light system.

Green – happy to continue.

Amber – that’s enough – back off.

RED – Stop. That’s it. No other meaning. Just stop.

Alcohol.

This club has no licensed bar.  At some events you may bring your own. Use this in  moderation. All alcohol must be given to the coffee bar staff and you will be served.

While you are playing we expect you to follow a 2 drink maximum. You may drink more if you are not playing. This goes for giving and receiving.

If you become or arrive intoxicated or appear to be incapacitated in any way, we will remove you from the premises or refuse entry. The nature of this environment requires a certain amount of sense and awareness and if you don’t appear to have that, we will ask you to leave. There will be no refunds or expenses paid.

Please be discreet.

You WILL need to, cover yourself up with a coat, etc until you get inside. Lingerie, and fetish gear – especially of a revealing nature should not be worn outside. There are changing facilities available once you’re inside. We are sited in an industrial estate, although we hold most of our events outside normal working hours – others may still be on site. Other companies around do operate CCTV, we have no control of their equipment or what they do with the recordings – remember this.

Smoking / Vaping.

As we are a commercial building smoking is not permitted within the space. As we have no covered smoking area, again street clothes are required for daylight hours. 

Vaping is permitted within the space, try to be respectful in the use of E-cigs, Large clouds of vape can be off putting.  

Drugs. 

If you are found in the possession of drugs, or offering drugs on the premises you will be banned for life. Drugs of any type will not be tolerated. 

Kit. 

We cannot take responsibility for your kit. Don’t leave your kit unattended and store it in a safe responsible way. 

Making a booking:

If you would like to make a booking please use the contact us button on this page.  If you wish us to host a party/gathering  – also use the contact us form on the above page.  Please be aware that the studio is available from midday to late Monday to Friday and 10am till late at the weekend.

Please call for our availability.

N.B – in all cases all booking must be paid for at time of booking.  Your enquired date is NOT secure unless payment is made. We ask that all payments be made in advance to avoid disappointment.

If you have to cancel please let us know within 48 hours of the booking. If this is not adhered to then the booking fee will be forfeited. If the cancellation is made in the required time then a new booking can be made within one month of the original date.

All bookings can be paid by bank transfer, payment link or via Paypal. We accept all major Credit and Debit cards as well.

We generally do not accept “on the day” bookings. Occasionally we may accept allow this under exceptional circumstances otherwise all bookings must be made in advance.

We request that you arrive promptly to your booking as time cannot be added on to make up for lateness. This is so that we do not inconvenience customers that book after you. Please contact us if you are delayed or have issues.

We won’t cancel your booking – but if we do, we will provide you with a full refund.

Use of the Studio:

If you are intoxicated or appear to be incapacitated in any way, we will remove you from the premises. The nature of this environment requires a certain amount of sense and awareness and if you don’t appear to have that, we will ask you to leave. There will be no refunds or expenses paid.

Any play that requires blood or piercing must be brought to our attention first. This also applies to anything that requires an open flame or bladed instrument.

Visual or audio recording can be done in the play area with prior permission. This is only during private bookings.

If you are renting the studio for professional use – please make sure that you have up to date PLI and Third Party Insurance. We may ask for this. The studio itself is fully insured for public liability and professional indemnity. Be aware that we cannot insure equipment that is not ours. Please make sure that your own insurance covers this.

Age:

This is an adult environment and as such we ask that all bookings are made by adults. If we believe that a person is too young to be involved in an activity, we will ask for proof of age. If this cannot be provided we will ask them to leave.

If you are hiring the studio professionally we ask that you age verify all persons brought into the premises.

Care and breakages:

If during your visit to the studio there are any breakages, these will be the responsibility of the hirer. All breakages and damage must be paid for.

During your hire period you may use any of the equipment on display. The management take no responsibility for injuries that might happen during their use. Any damages are solely your responsibility.

We will check all equipment prior to your visit to make sure that any damaged items are removed.

Please use all equipment responsibly and ask management if you are not sure how something should be used properly or safely.

Glass must not be taken into the play area under any circumstances. Plastic and paper cups are provided.

Cleaning equipment is available in the play space.

Anything used or dirty we ask that you leave on the floor or in the baskets provided.

Safe Sane and Consensual:

We ask that all activity carried out in the studio be negotiated before hand.
Any Consensual-Non-consent play must be brought to the attention of the management before play commences.
If we believe that play is non consensual we will ask you to leave and will refer to authorities.

This applies to all “edge play” activities. Please let us know first.

This studio adheres to the traffic light safe word system. But if we believe that play is reaching an unsafe level then management may step in and pause play to verify.

Staff will be present at all public events and will be close by during private bookings.

CCTV:

The play area is monitored by Closed Circuit Television. This is a private system and is available only to the management. This system is there for your safety and will never be published or reproduced unless it’s to proper authorities to aid in the investigation of a crime.

As we are not licenced for alcohol sales and don’t sell alcohol, CCTV is not a legal requirement for us.

Therefore it can be turned off during private bookings. If you require this please request it.